The Golden Rules of Living

Focus on the Family has always been a good resource for Morgan and I. For a while now, I've subscribed to Jim Daly's weekly email updates. They're usually quite insightful and topical. Morgan and I have also been enjoying the various pod casts available online- particularly the ones on parenting and nurturing marriage.

The Golden Rules of Living was originally posted by Jim Daly on 4-2-11. I find myself throughout the day, teaching and repeating quite a few of these rules in my house. Simply put, I thought this was a spot-on fundamental breakdown of the Golden Rule.

We’ve all heard of the “Golden Rule” – that ethic of reciprocity which instructs us to treat others as we might want to be treated. Someone recently sent me a list inspired by Jesus’ words in the Book of Matthew. The logic is simple and refreshingly blunt. You might tack this up on your refrigerator. It applies to young or old.

The Golden Rules of Living

If you open it, close it.

If you turn it on, turn it off.

If you unlock it, lock it up.

If you break it, admit it.

If you can’t fix it, call in someone who can.

If you borrow it, return it.

If you value it, take care of it.

If you make a mess, clean it up.

If you move it, put it back.

If it belongs to someone else and you want to use it, get permission.

If you don’t know how to operate it, leave it alone.

If it’s none of your business, don’t ask questions.

If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.

If it will brighten someone’s day, say it.

If it will tarnish someone’s reputation, keep it to yourself.