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Safe Families

21 December 2012


A week ago today, we were given custody of 2 little babies through the Safe Families for Children program.  This is a program we learned about through our church.  Safe Families places kids of all ages in "safe homes" for a temporary amount of time.  It's much like foster care but the goal is always to get the kids back to their parents. 

Little Peanut is 14 months old.  She's tiny and came to us extremely underweight.  She was eating nothing, constipated, and had a bed time of 11pm.  Her brother, Little Man turned 3 months old yesterday.  He had no problems eating, pooping or sleeping.  However, we were told his normal bed time was 10pm.

After only a couple of days, the kids are adjusting well, especially Little Peanut.  She no longer has constipation, she eats all her meals (although no solids yet), and sleeps from 7pm-7am.  We usually have to wake her up in the morning!  Little man sleeps 8-10 hours straight and when he's not sleeping or eating, he's up smiling for us.  So sweet! 

This whole journey began for us over a year ago.  The Lord placed it on our hearts back then and the stack of paperwork just sat there, on the corner of our desk. 

Ever since we sold our first home 2 years ago, we've always had an extra bedroom and felt that God was asking us to fill it with more than the handful of overnight guests we had each year.  In October of this year, we attended the same Safe Families meeting we went to the year before and this time, it was clear... we were being called to fill that room and most importantly, to open our hearts for what was to come. 

I cannot tell you how much our girls have helped us through this adjustment.  They suddenly became very BIG and responsible.  They've taken the change in stride and other than me missing our annual visit to the Living Nativity (they went with daddy), our schedule has remained as close to "normal" as possible.  Praise the Lord! 

This week has been all about getting used to life as a family of 6.  We've even managed to make it out of the house a few times! Woo-hoo!! 

Safe Families is all about inspiring local communities to get involved so we've had some extraordinary help from our friends and loved ones.  We've received support in the form of clothes, formula, diapers, wipes, and most importantly, prayer.  God is so good and faithful.  He is providing the provisions and taking care of all the details!

If you think of it, please say a prayer for the parents of these little ones.  Pray that they get the help they need in order to get their kids back as soon as possible.  Most of all, pray that God would work through them, change their hearts and help them to make wise choices, for the sake of their children.

Truly, this will be a Christmas we will never forget!

 
Out for a neighborhood stroll.


 
Lovin' on Little Man.
 
 
 
A good role model in Honest Abe.

 

Storytime.

 
 
Little Mommies... in training.
 
 

Happy boy!
 
 
 
 Enjoying the morning at the park.


 
The kids love being outside.
 

 
Of course, our two monkeys do, too!

Respite Care

26 May 2013

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Boys= dirt… and bugs. :)

 

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So thankful for all this SHADE in our backyard!

 

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Batman, doing what he does best.

 

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Playing Go Fish.

 

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Story time at the library.

 

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“Miss Caffrin, your windows are dirty. I can clean them for you.”  Why, sure!!

 

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Cutie pie.

 

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Fun at the park.

 

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Wee!

 

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A human caterpillar.

 

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It’s been a busy but fun week over here. We’ve been providing respite care for the wonderful Seals family while they’ve been away on a family trip. Through Safe Families, the Seals have been caring for these two little ones for the past 14 months.

Throughout the week, we spent lots of time playing outside and tried to maintain all of our normal activities and errands. It’s funny-- the looks, the stares, and comments you get when you’re out and about with FOUR children.

My favorite was, “Are these ALL yours?” :)

Unfortunately, this will probably be the last time we’re able to host or provide respite care for a while.

We learned we cannot simultaneously pursue adoption and serve through Safe Families at the same time. Understandably so… 

The girls have really enjoyed having more children in the house and for us, well, it’s been great practice for what may come!

Respite Care

27 December 2017

 Before I post about our Christmas, I wanted to remember what we did the week before Christmas.
We had the opportunity to provide respite care for our friends, Bill & Leslie Seals. For almost 6 years now, the Seals' have been serving as the dedicated host family for Safe Families.

If you've been following my blog over the years, you might remember that we also spent a brief time serving as a host family. Safe Families provides temporary housing for children. This is while their birthparents get their life back on track. In other words, the goal of the ministry is orphan prevention and family reunification. Bill and Leslie wanted to spend some time with their extended family in San Diego for Christmas so we jumped at the chance to take care of their two little ones for the weekend.

  
 Zach had fun pushing Layla around.


 We just had to remind him not to go too fast. 😮


 They played together well in the kitchen.


 While Athena and Grace played in the girls' room.


 They were playing nap time.


 Who could resist little Miss Layla? She quickly warmed up to us.

 She was absolutely Purrfect!


 Athena enjoyed doing Grace's hair and "flat ironing" it with a light saber. 😄


 Cutie pies.


 Zach did such a fantastic job of sharing his daddy all weekend. I was so proud of him!


All the little girls are fond of Morgan.


 She was a fearless little one.




 Taking a stroll with the littles.




 We had some gorgeous afternoon park time.


 This is pretty typical. Me and a load full of kids on the golf cart.  


 My Sunday morning view.


Some were happy about taking a picture before church... and some were not. 😜


 A trip to Costco after church.


 More playing and giggles.


 Sweet cuddles for little brother.


 Hooray for more park time.


 Tee ball... on a rock.
Because what's the fun in standing on the ground?
It wouldn't be dangerous enough. 😱🙈


 He was so great with her!


 Advent reading.

These two sisters were great eaters and sleepers (they put Zach to shame) so in terms of caring for them, they were easy! We tried to hang out around the house all weekend and just do the normal things that we'd always do. Zach did so awesome sharing his toys and sharing his daddy all weekend. For once, he wasn't the baby anymore and that, in itself, made him seem more grown up.
It was so good for him!

Athena and Layla will be with the Seals' for at least another 6 months so I'm sure we'll have the chance to have them over again. This was a sweet opportunity for our whole family to serve this Christmas while also helping out our friends.


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