October 2020 Book Review

30 October 2020

This month has been one for the books. And I mean that both literally and figuratively! 
I'll be sharing more details soon but for now, here's my October book review.



First up was, The Call of the Wild & Free: Reclaiming Wonder in Your Child's Education.
Even though we've been homeschooling for many years now, I always welcome encouragement and refreshment for the journey. If you've been homeschooling for some time, no doubt you are familiar with the Wild + Free community. Ainsley Arment created this community for families who want their children to receive a quality education at home by challenging their intellect and nurturing their sense of wonder, joy, and awe, giving them the kind of childhood they need. The homeschool approach of past generations is gone. Including the stigma of socially awkward kids, conservative clothes, and a classroom replicated in the home. The Wild + Free movement is focused on a love of nature, reading good books, pursuing interests and hobbies. making the entire world a classroom, and prolonging the wonder of childhood. Whether you are considering homeschooling, in the trenches, been doing it for years, or thinking about quitting, this book is filled with wonderful reminders of why we should stay the course. We've never wanted our kids to replicate what the current education system looks like. We've always enjoyed the freedom and adventure our homeschooling lifestyle gives us. Even though homeschooling is becoming more popular, I feel like there is still a stigma to it that most people simply do not understand. We don't feel like our children are missing out by not going to traditional school, we feel like they are gaining SO MUCH MORE of what really matters in life. I'd recommend this book to any homeschooler, no matter what stage you are in.   

Next up, I read Dr. Meg Meeker's Boys Should Be Boys: 7 Secrets to Raising Healthy Sons.

Boyhood used to be a time of freedom and fun--of catching bullfrogs, playing tackle football, and roaming the woods--but not anymore. Rambunctious, high-spirited boys--healthy boys--nowadays face an increasingly hostile world that doesn't value the unique gifts of boys, that discounts their masculine virtues, and that undermines what boys need to become mature, confident, and thoughtful men. 

In Boys Should Be Boys, Dr. Meeker reveals:

* Why the most important factor in shaping your son's behavior isn't "peer pressure" (it's you)
* How to preserve your son's innocence (and why it's essential to help him grow up)
* Why boys need less, not more--whether it's computer games, organized sports, or lessons
* How to talk to your son--the pitfalls that moms and dads face
* Why it's not normal for teenage boys to be moody and rebellious
* Why teaching your son about virtue isn't an option, it's a necessity

Full of practical advice and examples from her own medical practice of more than twenty years, Dr. Meg Meeker reminds moms and dads that there is no greater blessing--and no greater responsibility--than raising healthy, strong young men. 

Masculinity is being attacked in our culture and it's starting with our young boys. Ideas about gender neutrality have hurt the natural development of boys and the current social influences boys face cannot be left to passivity. This was an excellent book about how to raise a boy into a healthy man. Now I want to read her other book about daughters.   


Lastly, I read this aloud to the girls. 
The Girl With 7 Names by Hyeonseo Lee.

As a child growing up in North Korea, Hyeonseo Lee was one of millions trapped by a secretive and brutal communist regime. Her home on the border with China gave her some exposure to the world beyond the confines of the Hermit Kingdom and, as the famine of the 1990s struck, she began to wonder, question and to realize that she had been brainwashed her entire life. Given the repression, poverty and starvation she witnessed surely her country could not be, as she had been told “the best on the planet”?

At age seventeen, she decided to escape North Korea. She could not have imagined that it would be twelve years before she was reunited with her family. 
This was a remarkable story of courage, bravery, heartbreak, and triumph. 
Apparently, her TED talk (which I have not seen yet) has been viewed over 17 million times. 
Such a fascinating look into communism. 
It makes you really appreciate the freedom we have. 

37/50

As if this year could not get any weirder, let's all brace ourselves for the crazy election day we're about to face as a country. We have voted according to our values. We have hope this great country of ours will prevail against evil. But our ultimate hope does not depend on who wins this Tuesday. 
May God shed His grace on Thee. 

Chapter 50

18 October 2020

I admit, it's hard to believe I turned 50 last week 😲 but I love the perspective of it being just another chapter in my story.  


My sweet girls surprised me while I was out by baking these homemade GF/DF treats. 
 

I have the sweetest kids! I enjoyed a quiet evening at home surrounded by my favorite people. 


Then over the weekend, I got celebrate with lunch, catching up with my dear girlfriends, Hailey & Karen. 

A perfect way to celebrate turning 50!
 
The Lord has been so good and faithful to me and I am one blessed woman!

This verse has been hanging in my closet for years and although I may not always feel this way, this is my prayer for my 50's. If I'm being honest, my 40's were tough, especially the last 5 years. Lots of trials and loss, peaks and valleys. But isn't that what life is? We take our place in humanity as we navigate through the joys and pains of this world. One thing is for sure, it makes us long for another world, a Savior. 
Whatever life brings, I know God will be faithful to see me through. Instead of being fearful, I want to live bravely and confidently because I know Who I belong to, Who my hope comes from, and where I am going.

19 and Counting

17 October 2020

It's been 19 years since we said "I do" on that dreamy beach. 


Nineteen years. How quickly they've flown by.

Thank you for always encouraging me and championing me. Thank you for leading our family so well and for providing the best life I could have imagined for me and the kids, simply because you are in it. 

Nineteen years later and we've weathered some of life's storms together, haven't we? I couldn't have done it without you by my side. We've also shared the best of life's memories together and as a family. 
I love you more today than I ever could.

I'm praying we make it to our 50th anniversary, babe!
All my love, all my life. I choose you every single day. XOXO
   

We had the kids snap of photo of us before we headed out to dinner. 


Funny how he never ate or enjoyed sushi until our 8th anniversary when he actually gave it a try and now he chooses sushi every. single. time. #finebyme


We went to our favorite sushi restaurant in town, Okura. In December of last year, it moved to a new bigger location and this was the first time we visited. It was beautiful! 



We sat out on the patio and it was a lovely evening. 
We laughed, we reminisced, we dreamed, and we laughed some more.

Happy 19th, my love!  

Pumpkin Patch

16 October 2020

Last week, we took a trip to Riley's Farm to pick pumpkins.

It was Zach's first time at a patch so we let him pick out his favorite pumpkin. 

He found a little one that he thought was so cute. 



We also found some fairy tale pumpkins. 


Faith stopped to smell the roses. 🌹


We took Aunt Mary Jo along for the ride and of course, she loved it. 

Despite being VERY hot that day, we managed to pick a few pumpkins and get Aunt MJ out and about so it was a successful day. 

Hard to believe we're already halfway through October and it's still in the 100's over here. 
At this rate, I won't be wearing jeans until Thanksgiving. 
Looking forward to next week when temps will ONLY be in the 90's. Yay! 🎃 #abouttime 
   
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