Dad's Celebration of Life

07 July 2018

This is the memorial card that Jennifer designed.
Such a handsome picture of dad.


 I've always loved this picture of  2 year old Dad. What a cutie!!


Fireman Jerry.


 Radiant wedding photo.


Father of 4.


 On the left is a picture of dad when he was serving in the Coast Guard. Mom's ashes are on the right. We were saving them for this very day.


 Oh, yes, we did have a bagpiper! It was Morgan's idea and it was absolutely superb and beautiful.


 The brothers meeting with the Coast Guardsman.


 Zach doing his impression of the soldier and wearing his Hawaiian shirt as a homage to Grandpa.


See the shirt? I think Lucy saved it and made it into a pillow case.


 The representatives at Riverside National Cemetery were nothing short of outstanding.
Such respect, honor, professionalism, and grace.  


 The folding and delivering of the flag.


 Just incredible to witness.


 The brothers decided to have Jennifer receive it.


 Thanking dad for his service to our country and calling him an American Hero. 😭




Getting ready to lay them to rest.




 50th Wedding Anniversary Cruise.




 He was kind and funny. 😝😜😛


For 17 years, I had the joy and honor of calling this man Dad and eventually, Grandpa. I remember meeting him (and mom) for the first time and I was struck by how gentle, humble, and down to earth they both were. I always felt like I had a special bond with him. Like we just "got" each other, you know? We were so blessed to live close to them for 10 years and do life with them.
They were an integral part of Faith and Grace's childhood and we couldn't be more thankful for all those precious memories we have together.

I'll be honest, there are days when I drive by their old house and I think, how in the world did we lose both of them already? It just seems like yesterday that we were headed to their house for dinner.
Gosh, we miss them both so much.

Dad lasted 2 years + 100 days without mom and now, they are reunited, dancing in heaven with our Lord and Savior. Hallelujah!

The day after Zach's birthday, family and friends gathered to remember Dad. Faith played a song on the keyboard and led us in worship and then many of us shared special memories and sentiments. The whole memorial service was very special. Not only because mom and dad were laid to rest together but because we all witnessed the most incredible tribute to dad with full military honors. If you knew him, you'd know that he was a very low key person who tends to shy away from any kind of fuss made over him.

Maybe that's why the service was particularly meaningful and poignant? He lived so humbly and yet it was one of the greatest ceremonies we've ever had the honor of witnessing. It reminded me of what heaven might be like for God's servants. Many of us feeling like we've just squeaked in but how God has a great and beautiful ceremony waiting for us.

How do you accurately capture and reflect upon 85 years of life, love, and service?
Nearly impossible but Ben and Christina put together a stunning video that gave us all a little glimpse.

Zachary turns 4!

06 July 2018

Well, it's the first time in 12 years that I missed an entire month of blogging. July, where did you go? Anyway, last month, Zach turned FOUR and this was the night before his big day.


 He wanted a beach party again so we headed out early to meet our friends and family!


Fantastic F-O-U-R!





 Love his little sand beard. 😄


 Having fun, flying his kite.


 It was so great to have our family join us!


 All the Gough men.


 It was a beautiful day, in and out of the shade.


 Sweet friends came to celebrate!


 Grace and Levi.


 Janette and the girls taking a dip.


We had Zach's favorite for lunch... Pizza!!
Delivered right to the beach. Thanks, Domino's!


 Grace and Viv.


Time to sing, "Happy Birthday!"


I can't believe he's already 4!


 Look at that smile. Cheesin' big. 😁


 He requested a special cake from Ms. Jill. She made him a chocolate cake with coconut frosting and it was of course, delicious! Zach called it, "Choco-nut Cake." 😄


 I think he liked it. He ate two pieces.


Then he went to the cake pan and tried to scrape out more. 😂


 Daddy's little shadow.


Love him so much.


 More sweet cousins.




Epic gathering of family (in town for Grandpa's memorial service the next day).


 Happy Birthday, son!

We're so grateful to God for Zachary. If it wasn't for him, Morgan and I might actually think we had this parenting thing down. I know, it sounds ridiculous, right? 😂 🙈

You know that bible verse in 1 Corinthians that says God uses the weak to humble the strong?
Well, God knew we needed Zach to keep us humble and relying on Him daily. This kid keeps us on our toes (and on our knees)! He's passionate, strong willed, stubborn, and fervent.

He's also sweet, sensitive, smart, and brings us so much joy!
We can't wait to see what God has planned for his future.

Thank you, Jesus for allowing us to be his family.

We love you so much, Zachary!
Here's to 4 years of keeping you alive! 😂 #forrealtho

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